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Regular Events

For more information and exact dates and times, please check our Calendar.  Places and times may fluctuate.

Pub Nights

Join Lafayette Alternative Lifestyles every third Friday of the month at 8 p.m. for conversation, drinks, food, and fun! This is a casual, relaxed get-together where you can enjoy the company of like-minded people in the local lifestyle and mingle with friends, both new and old.

See you there!

Demo/Discussion Nights

Join us on the fourth Saturday of every other month at 7 p.m. for a fun and informative demo or discussion night.   This is an opportunity to learn and grow in the lifestyle by learning and discussing experiencing various kinky skills and viewpoints.  Expect to learn something, contribute something, and have a good time.

Topics vary, so please check our calendar for information on our current demo topic.   Members must be 18 years of age or older to attend a demo/discussion night.  Street legal attire is required.  Demo/Discussion Nights are held at a private residence in Greater Lafayette.  RSVPs are required and should be sent to rsvp@lafayettealtlifestyles.com no later than the Friday before the demo.

Play Parties

Join Lafayette Alternative Lifestyles for kinky play and fun on the fourth Saturday of every other month.  Our play parties are hosted at a private residence in Greater Lafayette.  Attendees must be age 18 or older. Please RSVP to rsvp@lafayettealtlifestyles.com for the address and other pertinent details no later than the Friday before the party. The email must include your full legal name as it appears on your government issued photo ID. If you have a a fetlife account, include it as well. This is the only manner in which RSVPs are accepted. Please come dressed in street legal attire. Our play parties are a pitch-in where food is concerned, so bring a snack or dessert to share with group, and please provide your own drinks.

This party is limited to a certain number of RSVPs, and attendance is on a first come, first served basis, so please RSVP as soon as possible. If you are not on the RSVP list, you will not be admitted.

It is important that all of our members have read and understand the group and play party rules, which are located under LAL Rules and Regulations on the homepage, before attending this event. Attendees must provide a valid driver’s license, state ID, or passport verifying that they are age 18 or over to attend. Attendees will also need to sign a waiver verifying that they have read and will abide by the house rules and LAL’s rules, and releasing LAL and the hosts from any liability in case of an accident.

To attend an LAL play party you must have attended at least one pub night, demo, business meeting, or other LAL function, or be vouched for by a known member.   To vouch for someone means that the member takes full responsibility for the guest, and should a problem arise, action may be taken against both the member and the guest, no exceptions.  This is for everyone’s safety, both yours and ours.

Come enjoy lots of spanking good fun! See you there!

Business Meeting

Join us on the second Monday of every month at 6 p.m. for the Lafayette Alternative Lifestyles monthly business meeting. We will be covering various LAL business items, including ideas for future events and items of interest. Bring your brainstorming skills!

We will be meeting at the Purdue Memorial Union in front of the Starbucks downstairs. We will be in front of the Starbucks until at least 7:30, but could possibly relocate to elsewhere in The Union for privacy after that time. The address is 101 N. Grant St. West Lafayette, IN 47906. Visit this link http://www.union.purdue.edu/ for a picture of the building and details about The Union’s various food and drink offerings. Free parking is available in the Grant Street parking garage across the street. You will be required to take and possibly validate a ticket, but the parking will be free after 5pm.


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